Richard Chamberlain: Remembering a Hollywood Legend

The world lost a familiar face with a quiet charisma on March 29, 2025, when Richard Chamberlain died at age 90 in Waimānalo, Hawaii. Instant headlines recalled him as the heartthrob from Dr. Kildare and the sturdy lead in Shōgun. But for those closest to him, especially his life partner Martin Rabbett, Chamberlain’s life was about much more than primetime TV or fame. "Our beloved Richard is with the angels now… Love never dies. And our love is under his wings lifting him to his next great adventure," Rabbett wrote, offering a personal glimpse beyond the polished Hollywood image.

Chamberlain first rose to fame in the early 1960s, playing the dashing Dr. James Kildare, a character that turned him into the kind of television star America tuned in for week after week. A decade later, he became a staple in the miniseries era: starring in the sweeping adaptation of James Clavell’s Shōgun and portraying Jason Bourne in the original TV version of The Bourne Identity. It was a career built not just on looks, but talent and a calm, compelling screen presence.

But Chamberlain’s real story, the private one, didn’t make front-page news for decades. He met Martin Rabbett in 1977. What began as a close working relationship—Rabbett is an actor, writer, and producer—evolved into a partnership that lasted for nearly five decades. In the midst of the Hollywood machine, Chamberlain and Rabbett created something ordinary but extraordinary: a quiet, loving life together, often away from spotlights and red carpets.

Enduring Partnership and Life in Hawaii

Enduring Partnership and Life in Hawaii

By 1986, the couple had made Hawaii their home, seeking privacy and peace. Unlike most power couples in Hollywood, they rarely made headlines. But they did sometimes share the screen—most notably in the adventure flick Allan Quatermain and the Lost City of Gold. The scenery wasn’t the only thing beautiful about their move; their home in Waimānalo was a retreat from an industry that often demanded secrecy from gay stars.

Chamberlain’s lifelong struggle with being a closeted actor is a story many in Hollywood can relate to, though few talk about it so openly. For years, he worried that audiences wouldn’t accept a gay leading man. In 2003, at 69, he publicly came out, helping change the industry’s image of masculinity and stardom. That honesty, long overdue, didn’t shrink his legacy. It gave fans a deeper understanding of just how much he navigated off-camera.

Though Rabbett and Chamberlain separated in 2010, their connection endured. They had reunited before Chamberlain’s death, with his publicist calling Rabbett the actor’s “lifelong partner and best friend.” Rabbett’s tribute after Chamberlain’s passing didn’t just mourn a lost love—it celebrated decades of partnership, emphasizing how the bond survived every twist, from the demands of Hollywood to the realities of aging and illness.

Besides his storied acting career and complicated relationship with fame, Chamberlain served in the U.S. Army, reaching the rank of sergeant from 1956 to 1958, and graduated from Pomona College before the world knew his name. In every chapter, he left a footprint—both in the history of television and in the life he quietly built with the person he loved.

Rabbett described him as a "loving soul" who is now "free and soaring," surrounded by the memories and the people he cherished. For anyone following the journey of Richard Chamberlain and Martin Rabbett, it’s clear this wasn’t just another Hollywood romance. It was a true story of devotion, partnership, and enduring love.